Otázky na které se zeptat

11. května 2014 v 12:25 | Soňa |  Matching - vybírání rodin

Otázky od Káji

Ahoj dneska ráno skoro v poledne mi psala Kája na skype, potřebuju s tebou něco probrat, můžu zavolat? Hned sem přemýšlela děje se něco?? Nevinný


Kája zpracovávala moje otázky pro Ulku (jsou fakt šílený) a ty chtěla probrat, ale včera večer si dala práci a vytvořila otázky pro au pair, na co by se měli zeptat.
Kája má rodinu, které už měla několik au pair takže u ní to bylo zodpovězeno samovolně od host matky. Já se zajímám o miminka takže se domlouvám s rodinou, která nikdy au pair neměla. A proto mi Kája radí dobře, tohle by měla každá au pair vědět.
Díky za nápady a sepsání Kájo. Mrkající S Kájou jsem se domluvila, že její otázky použiju s dovolením na blogu aby je mohla použít další au pair.

Otázky na které se zeptat:


What will my shedule look like? Can you give me somehow better picture of how many hours and how many days I will work? (max 45 per week, max 10 hours per day)

Do you expect me to work extra hours from time to time? If yes, are you willing to pay extra, give me some other advantage or give me nothing in return?

If your child comes to you and says au pair did something bad to him/her (was mean, shouted, spanked or other bad things), how would you handle the situation? Would you instantly believe him/her or would you want to hear also au pairs opinion? How would you solve it?

Can I ask how do you raise your children? What methods do you use, when you want to motivate them, tell them they did a good job or punish them? Do you want your au pair to use exactly same methods or are you willing to let her find her own way with your children?

What kind of relationship you seek to have with your au pair? Do you want her to be more employee or do you wish for her to be more of a member of your family? Can you give me as detailed answer as possible? (If you wish your au pair to be there at family gatherings, important school events of the kids even outside of working hours etc.)

Are you interrested in the au pair's culture? Do you expect her to cook meals from her native cuisine, tell you about her home country, maybe tell your children fairytales that she was told when she was a kid herself or even teach them some of her native language?

In case you need your au pair to drive (get kids to school, playdates etc.), will you provide her with a car and will you pay the gas she uses, while doing so? Will au pair get priviledge to drive the car also in her free time? If yes, under which conditions? (Paying gas for her own use, special permission, only in certain hours or in certain distance etc.)

Do you expect your au pair to get her local driver's licence? Can you provide me with a link, where can I find information about how to get it? In case you need au pair to drive, and you need her to have local driver's licence, will you cover the expenses for getting it or will you contribute?

Do you expect your au pair to use her cell phone to provide you with information about the children during the day, in case of emergencies and so on? If yes, will you provide her with one and are you willing to pay her expenses for calls and text messages connected with her work or contribute?

When you will go to family vacation, would you want your au pair to join you? And if yes, would it be only in matter of her job or would it be also her vacation as well? Will she get her own free time to explore and enjoy the vacation?

Can you describe me the room au pair will have? Where in the house is it situated? How far is it from bathroom?

Will your au pair have access to wi-fi, so she can call or email to her home country and stay in touch with her family during her free time? In case she doesn't own her own laptop/ipad/smart phone etc, will she get access to family computer in her free time for the same reasons?

Do you have curfew for your au pair? If yes, please explain. Also is it negotiable (if au pair proves she can be trusted etc)?

Is your family religious? If yes, how it influence your daily life and how would it influence au pair?


How do members of your family treat each other? What are the most important things you seek in your au pair? Please give me the most detailed description possible (are you honest, noisy or quiet family, always busy, perfectly organized etc.)
 

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